ugh been awhile, well i'm about 21 weeks along just plugging away, we know now that it's a girl yay!! super happy about that, already went through all the old clothes, I tried  to sell quite a few but still have about 3 bins left to donate, I wish I could find someone who needs them, but no such luck :( anyway heartburn and indigestion have been my good friends and now that I finally have a baby belly it's getting hard to sleep at night... ugh..... did some maternity shopping so I'm in the clear there, got pretty much everything we will need besides diapers and all that jazz for when the baby comes, got the dresser upstairs, gotta get the swing in there, Niko's room is all set up and he's been doing awesome about sleeping in there, he still comes in with me in the middle of the night but we'll hopefully get there... Meeka on the other hand who knows with her, hopefully once my mom gets here she'll sleep in her own room with her, since they will be sharing a room in there.. My mom bought her ticket and she'll be staying for about a month.... so hopefully helping out with the kids and this time around we won't have anything bad happen afterwards.. both my pregnancies haven't been a walk in the park afterwards, so let's hoping that the third time is the charm! :) ugh kids are crying and I need a shower.. story of my life. thats it for now.