I will start with Christmas, it was a good Christmas, everyone gave me money to get the kids gifts which was awesome since I went shopping on Black Friday and got A TON of great deals for Meeka especially almost everything I got I got it for a great deal, I will most definitly be doing that again next year!! plus I had a lot of fun doing it got to talk with some people in line and wait, Target was the best, they handed out granola bars and talked to all of us out there, gave us maps and where to find things, they also had a lot of great deals, we got a kinect and some great princess stuff for Meeka, she had an AWESOME christmas this year, got a ton of princess stuff and a kinect and quite a few games, we haven't broken in all of them yet, some are a little old for her, but it will be great fun to watch her play them, we do play the dance dance one and have a lot of fun doing it!!
New Years we were all extremely sick, Nixon actually called into work the ENTIRE week, he went in one day and they sent him home... it all started after we got together with the Duran's for our early Christmas, which just reminded me that they did that to us last year too, for Olivia's Birthday Olivia was pretty sick before hand, personally I would have post poned it but no of course Ashley didn't, so afterwards our entire family was sick for a few weeks and it made me really mad, well she did the SAME thing this year, I find out that same day they came over Olivia was throwing up like 3 times, and they still came over, I could tell something was up with her she kept on saying she didn't feel good.... WHY WOULD YOU BRING YOUR SICK KID OVER TO SOMEONE ELSE'S HOUSE????? especially one with an INFANT... Poor NIko I think he was the worst a long with NIxon I was very fortunate and didn't get too sick, justlittle congested, I was seriously drinking Ecchinancea tea and having emergen C like 4-5 times a day, just so I wouldn't get sick, because I can't take anything for congestion because I'm still nursing so I was very LUCKY!!! Nixon is just now getting back to normal his ears were plugged for like a good 2 weeks, he finally broke down and took some Mucinex D and sudafed after he couldn't take it any longer..... He also has been working nights, which I'm kinda getting use to it just really sucks though cause he's so tired during the day to really help out and then he's not here at night to help out either,,,, the only good thing is the night shift diferential he gets paid more to work at night, well this week though is supposebly the last week he will be working nights, they had to hire some more guys to work so they put him during the night to get things done, he's most definitely one of the best guys they have there, and also very well cross trained in all other areas.. too bad his raise didn't show that, this year he didn't get as much as last year..... He keeps on asking me what to do if they ask him to stay at night. I told him it's up to him... he's the one who has to live with it. I will make do I just want him happy. and it's fine for now, but once summer comes it's going to be really hard with it being nice out and him still working nights, he basically thinks that if he says yes to nights that he'll be shooting himself in the foot, I told him if he does go to nights to make sure that he gets ANOTHER raise on top of the differntial because he didn't get that good of one this year compared to last year and he still doesn't make anywhere what a machinest should make... so hopefully that will stick in his head, but it's Wednesday and the week is half over and they haven't said anything to him about it yet, so who knows most likely on Monday he'll just go back to working days and be the same ol same ol, during days though he has the opportunity to work A TON of OT and that helps out a lot, so it's really up to him what he wants to do, we'll see I just need to stay under control with all of our spending, I found some really great deals on GAP, but I'm holding off on them until we do our taxes. I'm really scared again this year cause we took a big chunk out of my 401 again this year to pay for our medical bills and pay for the van, but I did have them take taxes out this time where as last time I didn't and I've got almost $6,000 in medical bills this year, and I've got Niko to claim where as we didn't last year, so hopefully everything will work out, when I did a quick run through it looked like we weren't going to owe anything which is a relieve for me since we can't do another payment plan with the IRS since we are currently already on one, so if we did owe money we would have to put it on a credit card which really sucks!!! so anyway that is really the run down of everything right now nothing else... I can't believe that I have to start thinking about Niko's birthday party I can't believe my baby boy is turning 1... where did this year go??????? Nothing big just family I think my mom won't make it out most likely and neither will Nixon's parents and family... so just the same old, Anderson's my dad and my brother and Jaydon and Chris and Ashley. man I seriously wish things were a little different. Hopefully this Friday we will have a playdate with some of the other kids at church so Meeka can start making more and different friends ( I'm not too fond of Olivia) even though I think we are really stuck with them since we're their godparents for both of their kids.... Why they picked us I will never know!!! Chris doesn't even talk to Nixon anymore and at Olivia's party he kinda gave him the cold shoulder NIxon said??? So who knows Nixon doesn't really have anything in common with him and doesn't really go out and doesn't care to go out so that is that....... which I don't mind more time for him to spend with us and his kids....
I have been thinking here and there that we are to have anther kid, yea I know I'm crazy my baby is still a baby and not even 1 and I'm thinking of another kid, it's just a feeling that comes really strong sometimes and I have the feeling that it's a girl that is to join our family????? Maybe that is why I kept all of Meeka's really cute clothes hee hee .. anyway NIxon doesn't want one yet, but who knows maybe I can warm him up to the thought>>>> All I know is that if Heavenly Father wants me to have another child I will... it will be difficult and hard, but that is life... we will grow and love them no matter what!!! So that is where we stand with our family oh her name Nixon picked out would be Kamilla, I like Miya personally I think that is her name Miya Dahlia is what I would choose Miya Dahlia Madrid, then she would have the same anitials as all the other kids, but if it were Kamilla Miya Madrid she would have my anitials, so I guess I'm o.k. either way, but I think Miya is the best.anyway that is all my rantings and ravings for now :)
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